Ramblings of a Newlywed

Enjoy the ride, we may experience a little turbulance

a can of paint can be a miracle cure September 23, 2011

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When we purchased our home we knew the first project would be a desperately needed can (or 6) of paint. The old owners were far from afraid of color. In fact they could have used a healthy dose of fear!

Our living room was mustard yellow with a relish green accent wall… lovely… let me tell you, when you hear ‘designer paint colors’ from your real estate agent you know you’re in for a shock and sun glasses might be required. Designer is code for bright, you need 3 coats of primer to even be able to paint over it, color.

I wish I could make this up. And as we’re tackling other projects, like pulling up icky carpet we’ve found signs that other rooms were painted purple and red. Now I’m a fan of color. I have a navy blue accent wall for crying out loud but COME ON… not every wall in your house has to be a bold color, am I right?! It took many hours, many cans of primer and some professional grade Rodda paint to tackle the living room but it’s a beautiful shade of taupe now. I love it.

 I love the names of paint. Our living room is bracken, our hallway colonial moss, our master bath relaxing jade; our guest bath is military gray (okay that one lacks imagination but it’s a beautiful color!). And did you know there are 30 shades of white, each with its own name? Whoever comes up with the names for paint colors look out, I’m coming after your job.


Space to stretch out! We’re moving up in the world, or at least in square footage. September 19, 2011

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We moved from 500 square feet to 1100 square feet… Don’t get me wrong we loved our apartment, with its coved ceilings, arches and bay window. It had charm and character, something our new house is lacking in, but the space makes up for it! Besides, we’re adding charm, one DIY project at a time. Yes, that corner of the wall where the cat chewed off the paint, that’s charm damn it.  The true test of a relationship is sharing small quarters: a tiny kitchen, one bathroom, one bedroom with an itty bitty closet and an office in the living room with the TV and gaming console. No privacy, no space to stretch out and absolutely no quiet on weekends during football season. Don’t get me wrong, I love a football game a little more than the next girl but when your husband is a Husky and you’re a Cougar… you don’t want to hear him celebrating that they scored and won the game when your team just lost it’s 8th in a row with a score of 70-7.

Moving was insane… always is. But it’s so cathartic to go through everything you own and get rid of so many odd pieces of furniture, shoes that are missing their mate, how does that happen btw?, broken dishes. All that random stuff you accumulate when you’re living in one place for any length of time. Our whole relationship fit into one medium sized moving van and a loaded up Ford Focus. We had most of the boxes emptied and furniture in place in 14 days! We had entire rooms that were empty; it was crazy to go from using every spare inch of space to having too much room. We spent a good 3 months asking where did this or that end up? You’d be amazed where things like tape can hide in twice the living space!  Inside the coffee table, in the drawer in the master bathroom, in a box in the living room… amazing how quickly it spreads isn’t it?! And it’s still spreading, now we have an entire room dubbed the “cat room” that collects all the random pieces of furniture, my hello kitty collection (or junk as D. fondly refers to it), the extra laminate from our flooring project, the extra clothes that will fit in the master closet but I just don’t want them in there damn it. Poor kitties, though Noob does love to hide amongst those extra clothes, yea that’s why I put them in there, why we put everything in there, for the cats! Riiiight.


Virgin Home Buyer… what a ride! September 16, 2011

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First step, find a good mortgage broker who will tell you what you can afford, not what you qualify for. We owe a huge debt of gratitude to Melanie, who led us through the process. This is considerably more complicated than ‘house hunters’ on HGTV makes it seem. A bank will pre-qualify you for an amount that you cannot hope to pay each month so you really have to take a good long look at your finances and figure out what you can afford without being house poor at the end of the day. D and I aren’t lavish in our lifestyle, we like going out for dinner, going to see movies, and making the occasional large impulse purchase, thank you for my Kindle honey! But by and large we’re frugal people who are happy to live within our means, even slightly beneath them.

Next step, find a great real estate agent. Sonja was nothing short of amazing, she deserves sainthood for the 80 houses we drug her through, most of which were uninhabitable. When someone says ‘fixer’ in the description, be prepared, b/c it generally means falling down.  Sonja would often unlock the front door, take a few steps inside and call out, ‘not this one, but you have to come check out…’ there was the house with the all pink bathroom, this included pink shag carpeting that couldn’t have been newer than 1950. Or the house with the ‘upstairs bedroom’ that wasn’t accessible from well anywhere, we never did find that mystery bedroom. Or the house that smelled so strongly of cat you couldn’t even walk in the front door. Or the house with the herd of plastic deer in the back yard, included in the price! We traveled everywhere you can imagine and a few places you don’t want to looking for somewhere to call home. And when we found it, well let’s just say it wasn’t easy to make it ours.

We found our home and knew it was meant to be, not because it was perfect or ready to move in but because it was one of 5 houses that were habitable. I wish I could tell you I was exaggerating but no… and we have MANY witnesses that can attest to the level of dirty, structurally unstable homes we looked at. Imagination can only take you so far. So… we found our house, decide to make an offer and low and behold, so have 3 other people… and it’s a foreclosure so we’re dealing with a bank and not a homeowner. If your agent tells you the banks are ‘motivated’ to move homes… laugh. Yes, they want to sell the house, but they are going to sell the house for the price they want, in the time frame that works for them, with the terms and conditions they choose and there is no amount of counter-offering that can make them move, but it can allow another buyer to swoop in, offer $5 more and steal the house out from under you in the time it takes to snap your fingers. At least in our price range. Does that change depending on the price, market, bank… sure but it sure didn’t work that way for us. So we made an offer, waiting for a painful 3-4 business days, that’s another thing, when someone says 1-2 days, they mean business days, because weekends don’t count in the banking world, only to find out that they had accepted one of the other 3 offers. Where do we go from here we asked ourselves? This happened for a reason, something better is out there, we told ourselves… not so much. We looked at another 5-7 houses and were ready to put in another offer on a house we liked but needed a LOT more work up front than ‘our’ house on the hill. When Sonja told us the other offer backed out, did we still want the first house? YES! Another 2 weeks later it was finally ours. Not for the price we wanted, not with the concessions we wanted, but hey in the end we got the home we wanted for close to the price we wanted to pay. And we were FINALLY done looking!

Final step before closing, remember you can still back out at this point: the inspection. We found a great guy who does everything electronically and gives you a binder with pictures, descriptions, all kinds of useful things. HIGHLY recommend this, don’t ever consider forgoing a home inspection, who knows what could be lurking under fresh carpet and paint. Not to be all fatalistic but come on people, do your due diligence! Our wonderful inspector found no big surprises, just the small things that are bound to pop up in a house that hasn’t been lived in for over a year. Whew!

Closing… not awful but wow it takes a lot longer than you would think. But we got to turn in notice on our apartment, pack up and move up in the world.


the backstory September 15, 2011

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SO… who are we and what matters to us? I’ve been trying to think of a way to segway into this … why would anyone care who we are plus what we have to say? We don’t live a glamorous or extravagent life, we’re real people, flawed and imperfect who life in the real world. We laugh, we cry, we bicker and argue but at the end of the day we love each other and our life together.

We’ve both begun new jobs, within the last 3 months, with companies we love! Replacing jobs we’d grown out of as we grew up. You know how that is right?

We were high school sweethearts that didn’t really date in high school… odd I know. We’re the sickeningly cute people who can tell you the exact moment we fell in love with each other. *I’ll spare you the sappy story.*  

We love Penguins of Madagascar, Pixar Movies, reading in bed with cats prowling around on top of us, making fun of ourselves and laughing when our next ‘project’ goes horribly wrong (after getting snippy with each other over who didn’t measure right), playing with our pets, wandering around our local home improvement stores saying “oooh, wouldn’t that look great in our ___!”

We’re planning our honeymoon to France this March. Neither of us speaks a word of French, problem, so it’s ‘French for dummies’ podcasts while driving in the car. J

We recently got married after dating for 10 years! And it’s still a major topic of conversation in both families as is the inevitable, ‘so… you’re not getting any younger… grandchildren soon?’ Give us a few more years’ people!

We’re a lot of things: silly, sarcastic, clumsy, frugal, newlyweds, homeowners, DIY’ers, pet parents… We’re enjoying the ride, hope you do to!


It’s gonna be a good life, welcome to it! September 12, 2011

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We’ve been busy bees these past 2 years… In Nov. 2009 we got engaged. In April 2010 we bought our first house. There are a lot of amusing stories about that… I’ll try to remember them and get them all written down b/c it was quiet the process. In June 2010 we adopted 2 cats (Rico and Anubis) and in September we brought our dog, Lady into our home. In April 2011 we got married. And anyone who tells you wedding planning is stress free… didn’t plan their own wedding on a budget! In May we lost Lady to the march of time, 15 years is a good life.  About 2 weeks later we found a kitten and I’m thinking some divine intervention was happening. Lady would have LOVED a kitten to play with.  3 months after we lost Lady we brought Diamond into our home and began to reintroduce a dog into our family… it’s been a struggle but she’s worth it!

Now begins the slow process of updating our 1992 home that is, lets face it, less our taste and style and more a slave to brass, oak and hideous paint colors. There were a laundry list of things we wanted to change when we purchased and most of those things are still the same and still bugging us. We’ll get there eventually, home ownership is a process and we’re lucky to have been able to buy at all. To buy a home before you’re 30 is a huge accomplishment and every time we’re grumbling about the mortgage payment or the cost of another upgrade we stop and remember that we own our own home, or at least a huge debt, and that makes swallowing the pill a wee bit easier.

Our life had taken a lot of turns down windy roads, but they are right, the best way out is always through! And we’re enjoying every minute of our ‘new’ life together with our little animal family. 🙂